The $100,000 Mistake That Made Me a Better Dentist

Feeling overwhelmed by unlimited opportunity? Dr. House shares why fear is just a shadow and failure reveals who you really are.

Dec 13, 2025

How to Thrive in Dentistry’s Era of Unlimited Opportunity: Lessons from 2025

Finding your authentic voice in dentistry means learning to move forward—even when you’re not sure which direction is right.

The end of a year always invites reflection. But 2025 has been different. For dental professionals everywhere, this year brought a strange paradox: more opportunity than ever before, paired with an almost paralyzing sense of overwhelm.

On The Authentic Dentist Podcast, hosts Dr. Allison House and Shawn Zajas tackled this tension head-on in their year-end episode. What emerged was a masterclass in authentic dental practice—not the sanitized version we’re often sold, but the messy, real, vulnerable kind that actually transforms how we show up in our practices and our lives.

The Paradox of Unlimited Possibility

“I don’t know what to do with limited capacity, limited bandwidth, and seemingly unlimited opportunity,” Shawn admits during the episode. “The disparity between the two is bigger than I’ve seen ever in my life.”

If you’re a dentist scrolling through social media, attending CE courses, or simply keeping up with industry news, you’ve felt this. All-on-four procedures. AI diagnostics. New practice management systems. Membership models. DSO partnerships. The options are endless—and endlessly exhausting.

Dr. House, with over 25 years of clinical experience, offers a grounded perspective: “Never in the history of my life have I been able to see what’s possible. I’m in these closed Facebook groups where you can see people doing all-on-fours, surgeries, veneers… Am I implementing all of these things into my practice? I can’t do all of it. And that’s okay.”

This is the first lesson in finding fulfillment as a dentist: permission to not do everything.

The $100,000 Lesson in Moving Forward

One of the episode’s most powerful moments comes when Dr. House shares a story she rarely tells—her $100,000 CEREC machine purchase in 2004.

“The materials were terrible. It was not a good investment,” she recalls. “I used it for about six months. I took all the courses. I invested. I traveled. And my kids were little at the time. So I sacrificed a lot to learn this. And it was an abject failure for me.”

She ended up selling the machine. But here’s where the story turns: “All those courses taught me about how to prep a crown. It taught me about patient management and speaking to patients… I all of a sudden had to see my preps up close. And I could see if something wasn’t smooth and how I was going to do that.”

This is the essence of dental continuing education implementation done right—not as a checkbox, but as a pathway to growth even when the primary goal fails. The lesson extends far beyond technology: there are no wasted experiences if you’re willing to extract the wisdom.

The Flywheel Principle: Momentum Over Perfection

Dr. House references Jim Collins’ concept of the flywheel from Good to Great: “Getting that flywheel moving is so much work. It takes an enormous amount of strength to go from nothing to a little bit of movement. But a little bit of movement to more movement goes faster. And once it’s going, then the momentum just keeps going.”

For dental professionals paralyzed by the fear of making the wrong decision, this reframe is liberating. The goal isn’t to find the perfect path—it’s to start moving. As Dr. House puts it: “Even if I pick the wrong thing, it’s still moving me forward.”

This principle applies whether you’re considering implementing new dental technology, restructuring your team culture, or shifting toward a fee-for-service model. The worst decision is usually no decision at all.

When Ethical Courage Costs You

Perhaps the most vulnerable moment of the episode comes when Dr. House opens up about her biggest challenge of 2025: speaking out against an ethical violation—and finding herself alone.

“I had a tough year where I spoke out and said I wasn’t happy with the situation and I couldn’t ethically stand it. And that was really hard. And I reached out to a lot of people to help me and they didn’t help me.”

For anyone who’s ever taken a stand in dentistry—whether against insurance pressures, unethical practices, or compromised patient care—this moment resonates deeply. The isolation is real. The cost is real.

But Dr. House’s response embodies what authentic dental practice leadership looks like: “That doesn’t mean you stop being who you are. I didn’t do the things that I do for some reciprocation… I’m just going to keep being me.”

This is dental practice authenticity in its purest form—not as a marketing strategy, but as a way of being that persists even when it’s costly.

Fear Is Just a Shadow

“What is that one great fear that we’re afraid of that if somehow it came true, we think our life would be over?” Shawn asks. “If we just kind of looked at that one and realized fear, most of the time it’s just a shadow. It’s not real. It just intimidates.”

He references a previous guest, Adrian, who described surviving his first bankruptcy: “That was like the thing I feared that if this happened, there’s absolutely no way I can rebound… When it happened and he overcame it, he was just like, so what can stop me now?”

For dental professionals wrestling with overcoming dental practice challenges—whether it’s the fear of leaving insurance, investing in new technology, or simply showing up more authentically with patients—this reframe is powerful. The shadow of fear often looms larger than the reality.

The Gift You’re Meant to Give

Woven throughout the episode is a thread that connects to The Authentic Dentist’s core philosophy: your unique gifts are meant to be shared.

“Everyone is gifted, I believe, to some extent,” Shawn observes. “And the point of them being gifted is so that if you have a gift, the only point of having a gift is that you give it away.”

This connects directly to what the podcast has championed from the beginning: your greatest strategy is to align yourself with your gift, who you are, your message, the way you want to do dentistry, your way.

Finding your authentic voice in dentistry isn’t about copying what works for others. It’s about discovering what makes your approach to patient care, team leadership, and practice culture uniquely yours—and having the courage to express it.

Practical Takeaways for 2026

As you prepare for the new year, here’s what this episode invites you to consider:

1. Give yourself permission to not do everything. The sustainable dental practice model isn’t built on saying yes to every opportunity—it’s built on strategic alignment with your values and capacity.

2. Move forward, even imperfectly. The flywheel only works when it’s in motion. Whatever decision you’ve been putting off, the learning lives on the other side of action.

3. Expect failure as part of growth. As Dr. House’s father used to say, “If you’ve never failed, then you’ve never tried anything that stretches you.”

4. Stay true to your ethical core. The support may not come when you need it most. Stay you anyway.

5. Confront your shadow fears. What’s the one thing you’re most afraid of? Name it. Examine it. Often, it’s smaller than it appears.

6. Remember: your gift is meant to be given. Whatever unique contribution you bring to dentistry, the profession needs it. Don’t hold back.

Closing Reflection

Dr. House sums up the episode’s wisdom in a single invitation: “If you never fail, then you never try to do something that you thought you couldn’t do. If everything you do is something you knew for sure you could do, you never get to see who you really are.”

As 2026 approaches, this is the challenge before every dental professional: Will you play it safe and stay the same? Or will you take the risk, bet on yourself, and discover who you really are?

The Authentic Dentist Podcast exists for those who choose the latter.

Listen to the full episode of The Authentic Dentist Podcast wherever you get your podcasts. Join the conversation and discover how embracing your authentic self can transform your practice, your team, and your life in dentistry.

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